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Anniversary

November 15th, 2009 at 9:40 am » Comments (0)

I have found myself skirting the edge of a mild depression. Life has been growing and filling up over the last 6 months (almost to the point of overfilling!), but also holding a void.  We have been in a place of limbo, grief recovery and anticipation.
We just passed the one year anniversary of having matched, [...]



Softening

November 9th, 2009 at 2:59 am » Comments (0)

In a sense, T-7 prepared us for getting an infant. She taught us that parenting a baby could not possibly be any harder than parenting her.  We were often sleepless, we felt the shock of losing our own individuality and freedom.  Additionally, dealt with tantrums of a 2 year-old in a 7 year-old body. I [...]



Get it while the getting is good?

October 2nd, 2009 at 10:38 am » Comments (0)

I have been going through a bit of a gluttonous stage lately.  For me this translates into starting new projects that I am excited about, planning trips and spending money on pampering things.  It is hard for me to go to these decadent places without harboring some guilt.  It feels good, but I am not [...]



Into the Minds of Babes by Lisa Guernsey

September 30th, 2009 at 9:38 am » Comments (0)

This is a fabulous book that dissects the use of television and video media by children ages 0-5.  Guernsey holds equally the voice of a diligent researcher, looking at existing scientific evidence, and of a concerned parent. It calls to question assumptions that have been made.
On one side, in 1999 the American Academy of Pediatrics [...]



Foster Care Conundrums

September 29th, 2009 at 2:39 pm » Comments (0)

In our foster parent training, we learned that all kids in foster care are special needs.  By virtue of whatever circumstances removed them from their family and brought them into “the system” puts them into a more vulnerable position in our society.  CPS first looks for a relative or friend to take the child so [...]



Mama Loss

September 13th, 2009 at 11:42 am » Comments (0)

I am really into intimacy.  I have plenty of friends that I have casual friends with that I see around, but my close friends are people that I can say anything to. And they can say anything to me.  And we do. I love to be up in people’s business and well, they don’t really [...]



Moving Forward

August 17th, 2009 at 5:05 pm » Comments (0)

J- and I have been differentiating “moving on” and “moving forward”. When we think about moving on, we think of recovery and coming back to ourselves.  We think of just taking emotional space to recover from a really hard period of life.  Not only are we resting and being still, but we are also taking [...]



My Sister’s Keeper by Jodi Picoult

August 15th, 2009 at 1:26 pm » Comments (0)

Previews for this movie had me very excited about the premise. A baby is bred to be a donor for her sister, who is dying of cancer. When she becomes a teenager, she is tired of it and sues her parents to gain the rights to her own body. The book caught [...]



Moving On

August 14th, 2009 at 8:53 am » Comments (0)

During the first few days after the girls had moved out, I felt as if I were recovering from a car accident.  I was in a sort of shock, where I knew what had happened was absolutely horrible and sad, but there was also an insane humor about it.  Like, can you believe that we [...]



Book Review: The Mistress’s Daughter by A.M. Homes

August 3rd, 2009 at 10:03 pm » Comments (0)

The Mistress’s daughter is the riveting memoir of A.M. Homes and her relationship with her birth parents. The story begins when, at age 31, she goes home for Christmas and her mother tells her that someone is looking for her.
“After a lifetime spent in a virtual witness-protection program, I’ve been exposed. I get up knowing [...]



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